Random Tots...

Things evolve and change with time. It occurs in r/s too.
What one looks for in a r/s is nt necessary a constant.
Everything can be a variant.
Scarry as it seems, but tts part of living.

So dun keep thinking tt it is easy for 2 person to be tgt.. for a lifetime.
Dun.. take things for granted in e world today.
Easy to fall in love. Not easy to keep the love going.
Easy to say "i love u forever". Not easy to keep the marriage going.
Simple, yet complex.
Romance is a changing entity.
It has evolved into sth marketable, it is abt 'fast & furious';
'Slow n steady' has to take the back seat.

Timing seems to be the key to 'happiness'.
You've got to know tt person long enough and well enough to tie the knot.
Yet, you hve limited shelf life to grab hold dearly to ya 'happiness'.
Especially true for women. Aft a certain age, ppl assume tt you wont ever get married.
What's tt supposed to mean?
Oh.. happiness can be found before you reach a certain age?
And then, concerned dad n mum wonder what they shd do to u.
Some came out w ridiculous conclusions lke,
"oh, shdnt hve sent her to a gals' sch in e first place"
Oh wow..
bravo.
full-stop.

Under exam condition, solving eqn is abt finding the fastest route.
But life is not abt this.
Different routes be it shorter or longer ones ,are perfectly fine.
As long as... you found the route ultimately.