Love of a lifetime

How do you feel when your sibling is getting married?
How did you feel when your sibling got married?

And how would you feel when you were asked to host ya sister's wedding banquet? Yes, you.. the baby sister having the honour to host the event of her life.. her wedding day... the beginning of her happiness.. the beginning of her next phase of life.
The feeling is indescribable.
I'm so honoured to be the maid of honour (i think), the sister of the bride, the master of the ceremony and the wedding singer. I have so much responsibilities and roles to play!! *gasp*

And the thought of being able to literally sort of witness and go thru this important life ceremony with her.. just got me so excited. :)

The other day, my sis brought me to the potential hotels where the wedding banquet might be held. She wanted my opinion on how i feel about the different hotels and which one would be the best choice for her big day. When i stepped into the ballrooms, the hotel crews were busy putting up decoration and the band players were tuning their musical instruments to prepare for the big day for some couple. At that instant, I had a sudden impulse.. I had a sudden urge to be a wedding planner. Well, having said tt.. of cos.. its an impulse. Haha! But at least, i wana be a part of the big thing for my sister's wedding.. i wana help make her wedding day a truly memorable one.

What makes a perfect wedding?
What is your vision of a perfect wedding?
Isit a grand, elegant, extravagant one? A romantic and lush one?
Haha.. yeah tt wld be beautiful and lovely.. but not all can afford tt, isn't it? The rich ones can afford tt, of cos. I was thinking.. its so magical when ya parents or the older generations got married in simple and humble wedding banquets.. inviting some close frens and relatives and get drunk in the happy occasion. I guess the job of wedding planners back then, were much simpler, in a way.

And when you think of ya parents.. married and still love each other so much.. altou there are bound to be quarrels and incessive bickerings every now and then. I cant help but feel tt.. this is truly a beautiful warm-hearted phase of our lives. It jus warms my heart with such a magical touch. The simple and humble wedding banquets decades back then had brought abt such magical touch to the lives of two different individuals - how these young couples transformed, grown up and lived tgt all these years. (Well, of cos, when you see how ya parents quarrel lke kiddos.. you wondered if they rlly did grow up and what good marriage has done to them.. wohahahah)
But, all in all, life still harbours so much hope and love for the newly weds.. and its nice tt they look forward to growing up tgt.. learning about life tgt and going thru the trials n tribulations in life tgt. We all want to hve soul partners to share our happiness and woes, isnt it? Knowing tt someone wld be there for u, is alwys nice :)

Ok, i'm sounding lke i'm some romancing s'pore ambassador. woahahah!

Well, i jus wana say tt marriage.. wedding.. is only the beginning. Its not tt ''happily ever after'' ending. It wld be a tiring.. most of the time.. a chore to constantly trying to keep the marriage alive.. managing your marriage. But, in the process of doing so.. i hope my sis wld also seek immense strength fr the union itself to work things out in watever she faces in the next phase of her adult life.. it wld be a wonderful journey of self-discovery and growing up.. :) Most imptly, it wld be a blessed marriage if both the bride and groom work hard tgt to make the marriage work out. This alone.. wld be enuff.. at least.. for their part.. it takes two to work it out afterall.. and to be fair.

wow.. din expect this entry to be this long. anw.. my sis is nt getting married tml.. in case u tot its lke a wedding speech for my sis. ahhahaha..


*throw flower petals ard*

goodnite.