Monday, June 26, 2006
I received a few of such friendster msges this mth...
Date: | Sunday, 25 June, 2006 6:25 PM |
| Subject: | Hi |
| Message: | I think you're attractive, fun and interesting girl, I'd like for both of us to get to know each other, so that we can be friends, and hopefully we can start it off as activity partners, if you do sports as well! I'm funny, interesting, attractive guy, who likes learning foreign languages, and practising sports, espl Running, Tennis, Squash, Badminton, I aslo workout in the gym, and play beach volleyball sometimes! I only meet women with good personality, because looks are the result only of good fortune, and fade away in time, so I would rather date a woman with substance, that took her some effort to achieve! Cheers, xxxx (shant reveal his name to protect this person's identity) |
Monday, June 19, 2006
游览了朋友的blog, 无意间看到了她与男友的合照。
照片中的这对小情侣，流露出了灿烂的笑容。
两人很显然的，正在热恋中。
情侣照，比比皆是。
但唯独这张让我印象深刻、记忆犹新。
照片没有经过一番修饰 （like photoshop..)
男女主角也没有刻意搔首弄姿或装可爱。
就是正正经经地脸靠着脸，
淡淡地微笑。
很简单的一张照片。
女主角在照片下列写了这样的文字：
“I love this photo cos my darling looks really adorable in it. I like the way his teeth looks as he smiles and those warm loving eyes too. *muahx* :) ”
还没看到这一小段文字前，
说实在的，我根本没注意到男主角。
我只看到女主角一幅沉醉在幸福中的样子。
我记得曾经对女主角说过：“Your bf is rlly a lucky guy! You are such a nice lady!”
看了这张照片后，我似乎有所领悟：
值得她爱的那位男生，肯定也付出了很多。
这位男生一定也很棒。
否则怎么能赢得美人的芳心呢？
从另个角度来看，她也许是这么想的：“I'm a lucky gal! My bf is such a nice guy!"
是的，我为朋友能找到一个那么爱她的男人而感到开心。
人家说“幸福是没有形状的，看不到的”。
今天，我终于从他们的身上看到了幸福的形状。
不要问我那到底是什么形状，
因为再多的言语会损坏它那崇高的形象。
相信有一天，你也会感觉到的。
等那一天来临时，你也会笑得合不拢嘴。
祝你幸福！
结语：
当然，谁也无法预料到他到底会不会是你的终身伴侣。但是，要享受恋爱的过程。要懂得疼爱自己。也要学习理性地保护自己。不简单？不妨试一试。
照片中的这对小情侣，流露出了灿烂的笑容。
两人很显然的，正在热恋中。
情侣照，比比皆是。
但唯独这张让我印象深刻、记忆犹新。
照片没有经过一番修饰 （like photoshop..)
男女主角也没有刻意搔首弄姿或装可爱。
就是正正经经地脸靠着脸，
淡淡地微笑。
很简单的一张照片。
女主角在照片下列写了这样的文字：
“I love this photo cos my darling looks really adorable in it. I like the way his teeth looks as he smiles and those warm loving eyes too. *muahx* :) ”
还没看到这一小段文字前，
说实在的，我根本没注意到男主角。
我只看到女主角一幅沉醉在幸福中的样子。
我记得曾经对女主角说过：“Your bf is rlly a lucky guy! You are such a nice lady!”
看了这张照片后，我似乎有所领悟：
值得她爱的那位男生，肯定也付出了很多。
这位男生一定也很棒。
否则怎么能赢得美人的芳心呢？
从另个角度来看，她也许是这么想的：“I'm a lucky gal! My bf is such a nice guy!"
是的，我为朋友能找到一个那么爱她的男人而感到开心。
人家说“幸福是没有形状的，看不到的”。
今天，我终于从他们的身上看到了幸福的形状。
不要问我那到底是什么形状，
因为再多的言语会损坏它那崇高的形象。
相信有一天，你也会感觉到的。
等那一天来临时，你也会笑得合不拢嘴。
祝你幸福！
结语：
当然，谁也无法预料到他到底会不会是你的终身伴侣。但是，要享受恋爱的过程。要懂得疼爱自己。也要学习理性地保护自己。不简单？不妨试一试。
Tuesday, June 13, 2006
woohoo!! Yay!! I've got a new phone.. finally!
Haven rlly explored my dear fren here..
But..
I managed to tryout sth with my phone..
Designed these pics (below) on impulse.. but i kinda like them. HAHAAHAHH...
before... after..... (e fire icon is inspired by x-men)
Haven rlly explored my dear fren here..
But..
I managed to tryout sth with my phone..
Designed these pics (below) on impulse.. but i kinda like them. HAHAAHAHH...
before... after..... (e fire icon is inspired by x-men)
Sunday, June 11, 2006
平时是为了庆祝一些特别节日才到婆婆家去。我知道，去探望公公婆婆其实不需要任何理由。唯一的理由应该就是：想念与关心他们老人家吧。
从小到大，我和公公婆婆的感情并不是很深厚。另外，也不常到他们家去玩。
老实说，与其他的堂弟堂妹也不是很亲。大家各忙各的，彼此之间，并没有什么互动。
是的，“各忙各的”的确是个很烂的借口。
我想，上一代与下一代，都必须负起这个责任吧。
x x x x x x x x x x x x
今天，我们到婆婆家去吃晚餐。
碰巧小姑和姑丈从公司带回来了好多箱子。里头堆着满满的废纸。
把它们带到家里，动员了公公婆婆，堂弟们一起撕纸。（把废纸撕成碎片才丢掉）
我们一家人也派上用场，一起帮忙撕纸。本以为这个‘活动’将会是枯燥乏味。然而，它却带给了我无比的满足感。通过这个特殊的活动，隐约地将三代的关系拉得更近。听起来的确很不可思议。但是，这的确在我心中激起了很大的涟漪。
我们坐在一起（形成圆形的形状），一边闲聊，一边撕纸。
没有一丝尴尬的气氛，反而多了一种温馨的感觉。
大家似乎有说不完的话题。
闲聊中穿插着欢笑。
三代之间的代沟顿时已化为乌有、烟消云散。
突然联想到《红楼梦》中-‘晴雯撕扇’这一节。
似乎能体会到当时晴雯撕扇时，那种无比的痛快。
虽然‘晴雯撕扇’与‘思贤撕纸’的性质不同，
但是都带给了两人非笔墨所能形容的一种喜悦。
结语：人是种奇特的动物。零碎不堪的一桩小事，已足以让我感动得不行。
人要活得有意义，就必须先学会珍惜所有美好事物。
关心与爱护身边的人也是一种‘珍惜’的表现。
从小到大，我和公公婆婆的感情并不是很深厚。另外，也不常到他们家去玩。
老实说，与其他的堂弟堂妹也不是很亲。大家各忙各的，彼此之间，并没有什么互动。
是的，“各忙各的”的确是个很烂的借口。
我想，上一代与下一代，都必须负起这个责任吧。
x x x x x x x x x x x x
今天，我们到婆婆家去吃晚餐。
碰巧小姑和姑丈从公司带回来了好多箱子。里头堆着满满的废纸。
把它们带到家里，动员了公公婆婆，堂弟们一起撕纸。（把废纸撕成碎片才丢掉）
我们一家人也派上用场，一起帮忙撕纸。本以为这个‘活动’将会是枯燥乏味。然而，它却带给了我无比的满足感。通过这个特殊的活动，隐约地将三代的关系拉得更近。听起来的确很不可思议。但是，这的确在我心中激起了很大的涟漪。
我们坐在一起（形成圆形的形状），一边闲聊，一边撕纸。
没有一丝尴尬的气氛，反而多了一种温馨的感觉。
大家似乎有说不完的话题。
闲聊中穿插着欢笑。
三代之间的代沟顿时已化为乌有、烟消云散。
突然联想到《红楼梦》中-‘晴雯撕扇’这一节。
似乎能体会到当时晴雯撕扇时，那种无比的痛快。
虽然‘晴雯撕扇’与‘思贤撕纸’的性质不同，
但是都带给了两人非笔墨所能形容的一种喜悦。
结语：人是种奇特的动物。零碎不堪的一桩小事，已足以让我感动得不行。
人要活得有意义，就必须先学会珍惜所有美好事物。
关心与爱护身边的人也是一种‘珍惜’的表现。
Saturday, June 03, 2006
B4 i go into e main content, allow me to sidetrack a little..
This is in response to the 'super-duper incredibly encouraging' words left in the previous post on planting.
Thank u all my frens for being so ever confident of my failure in planting! '_' ||| Hmmph!
p.s: ok, fine.. i admit tt i haven started planting at all. But.. tt doesnt mean tt i wont succeed ultimately! Slow n steady mah.. :)
~DUCK GOES FOR Her 1ST STREET JAZZ LESSON~
Yes! I went for my very 1st Street Jazz lesson today at Tampines Central CC. Guess wat? I had stomachache just b4 i went into e dance studio. NO la.. i'm nt nervous over e lesson or meeting new ppl. I simply ate too much.. i ate a bowl of porridge 10 mins b4 my lesson commerced. Muahahha...
Anw.. i registered for this course alone. I was so ready to meet new ppl.. meeting new dancemates sounded v exciting for me. But.. it was so disappointing. 1stly, there r no guys in my class (oops.. did i say tt aloud?!!) muahha.. no la.. e impt point is.. i din make any new frens aft e whole lesson. B cos.. all of them had their own kakees n had their own cliques ( think they took up other dance courses tgt b4). I hve this "lets be frens" look on my face. But, no one dared to approach me. Haahahaa.. or was it tt i've danced so well tt they became jealous of my natural talent? Sigh... sometimes its rlly nt easy being so outstanding. MUAHAHAHA.. no la.. from their appearance, i can tell tt most of them r younger than me. Perhaps they haven realised tt its a courtesy or being considerate to make an effort to befriend new ppl outside ya clique. I'm guilty of doin tt myself sometimes. But, its rlly nice n totful if u can make someone new to the group feel more at ease by befriending tt person. So tt, he/she wont feel so lonely or left out. Its a skill. I encountered alot of such situations whereby ppl dun bother to make an effort to do so. Trust me.. little gestures do matter. No harm smiling more if u can make someone feel more comfortable rite? :D
No worries.. i dun feel bitter abt it. Doesnt bother me much. Most imptly, i like my instructor. But, I've forgotten her name. !!! Haha.. she is nice n alwys carries a smiley face :) She tries to ensure tt all of us (esp beginners) can follow e dance steps well. I think her motto is "NO ONE GETS LEFT BEHIND". Tt suites me perfectly.
I had some regrets when we were doin some stretching n tip-toe exercises. I felt like an overweight ballerina. Rlly.. i mean lifting up my legs, pointing my toes... i cld imagine myself squeezing into e pink ballet dress u know. muahahah.. but, its ok. I rlly enjoyed the dance. E pace was nt too fast n e instructor keeps lookin at me. hee.. perhaps she saw some potential in me!
I jus came back fr my lesson. N i told myself: i shd start tip-toeing whenever i walk. So, if u c someone tip-toeing in fast short steps (as if she is floating in e air). Do not panic. Tts me!
Say "hi" to me ok :) I will try nt to tip-toe ard when i cross e road. Its quite dangerous.. n i mite even scare e hell out of some poor drivers.
I strongly believe tt..
With my tough trainings..
One day..
i will be like ...
DUNCAN.
This is in response to the 'super-duper incredibly encouraging' words left in the previous post on planting.
Thank u all my frens for being so ever confident of my failure in planting! '_' ||| Hmmph!
p.s: ok, fine.. i admit tt i haven started planting at all. But.. tt doesnt mean tt i wont succeed ultimately! Slow n steady mah.. :)
~DUCK GOES FOR Her 1ST STREET JAZZ LESSON~
Yes! I went for my very 1st Street Jazz lesson today at Tampines Central CC. Guess wat? I had stomachache just b4 i went into e dance studio. NO la.. i'm nt nervous over e lesson or meeting new ppl. I simply ate too much.. i ate a bowl of porridge 10 mins b4 my lesson commerced. Muahahha...
Anw.. i registered for this course alone. I was so ready to meet new ppl.. meeting new dancemates sounded v exciting for me. But.. it was so disappointing. 1stly, there r no guys in my class (oops.. did i say tt aloud?!!) muahha.. no la.. e impt point is.. i din make any new frens aft e whole lesson. B cos.. all of them had their own kakees n had their own cliques ( think they took up other dance courses tgt b4). I hve this "lets be frens" look on my face. But, no one dared to approach me. Haahahaa.. or was it tt i've danced so well tt they became jealous of my natural talent? Sigh... sometimes its rlly nt easy being so outstanding. MUAHAHAHA.. no la.. from their appearance, i can tell tt most of them r younger than me. Perhaps they haven realised tt its a courtesy or being considerate to make an effort to befriend new ppl outside ya clique. I'm guilty of doin tt myself sometimes. But, its rlly nice n totful if u can make someone new to the group feel more at ease by befriending tt person. So tt, he/she wont feel so lonely or left out. Its a skill. I encountered alot of such situations whereby ppl dun bother to make an effort to do so. Trust me.. little gestures do matter. No harm smiling more if u can make someone feel more comfortable rite? :D
No worries.. i dun feel bitter abt it. Doesnt bother me much. Most imptly, i like my instructor. But, I've forgotten her name. !!! Haha.. she is nice n alwys carries a smiley face :) She tries to ensure tt all of us (esp beginners) can follow e dance steps well. I think her motto is "NO ONE GETS LEFT BEHIND". Tt suites me perfectly.
I had some regrets when we were doin some stretching n tip-toe exercises. I felt like an overweight ballerina. Rlly.. i mean lifting up my legs, pointing my toes... i cld imagine myself squeezing into e pink ballet dress u know. muahahah.. but, its ok. I rlly enjoyed the dance. E pace was nt too fast n e instructor keeps lookin at me. hee.. perhaps she saw some potential in me!
I jus came back fr my lesson. N i told myself: i shd start tip-toeing whenever i walk. So, if u c someone tip-toeing in fast short steps (as if she is floating in e air). Do not panic. Tts me!
Say "hi" to me ok :) I will try nt to tip-toe ard when i cross e road. Its quite dangerous.. n i mite even scare e hell out of some poor drivers.
I strongly believe tt..
With my tough trainings..
One day..
i will be like ...
DUNCAN.